Iteration 3 of the Interview Meme!
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perkyshai:
1. Is forgiveness for you or others?
There is no forgiveness. To truly forgive means to forget, to erase the deed from time. It requires more mojo than even a god can handle. There is merely acceptance, and a mutual agreement to go on despite the hurt. People who believe in the illusion of forgiveness invariably manage to hurt themselves with it. I believe it takes more strength of character to recognize that someone hurt you, and that you accept them anyway, without discounting or forgetting the pain. In short, to quote a cheesy but insightful song, "I believe forgiveness is the key to our unhappiness." Karma does not forgive; neither does gravity. Mercy is better than forgiveness.
2. Is it hard to reconcile generosity of spirit with a need to challenge one’s equals?
In theory, no. A challenge, freely given and fully refusable, is a gift. In practice, yes - I never know how far or how hard to push.
3. Is teaching a spiritual act? How?
Yes. For me, part of my duty in the world is to nurture understanding and reason in others. That nurturance, that connection to intellectual (and, hopefully, personal) growth in them, is part of what I think of as my priestess-call. It's my service to, my worship of, all the gods and goddesses of learning and wisdom - Thoth, Sarasvati, Athena, Nidaba, Raven . . . (Don't tell the kids that, though!)
4. Leather or nutella?
Leather. I'm not that into chocolate.
5. Snuggles better with talking or sleeping?
Talking. I'm all about the long, meandering, deep conversations until 3 am, wrapped in someone else's arms and entangling them in my legs. (If I can only get one, I'll take the conversation over the snuggling, even. Verbal intimacy is better than no intimacy at all.) I have trouble sleeping while snuggled - it's too . . . arousing is not quite the word I want . . . aware-making for sleep.
And the rules, one more time:
1. Leave a comment requesting an interview.
2. I'll respond by asking you five questions. I get to pick the questions.
3. Update your corner of the net with the answers to the questions and leave notification in the comments to this entry.
4. Include this explanation and an offer to interview someone else in the same post.
5. When others comment asking to be interviewed, ask them five questions. And thus the cycle continues.
perkyshai:1. Is forgiveness for you or others?
There is no forgiveness. To truly forgive means to forget, to erase the deed from time. It requires more mojo than even a god can handle. There is merely acceptance, and a mutual agreement to go on despite the hurt. People who believe in the illusion of forgiveness invariably manage to hurt themselves with it. I believe it takes more strength of character to recognize that someone hurt you, and that you accept them anyway, without discounting or forgetting the pain. In short, to quote a cheesy but insightful song, "I believe forgiveness is the key to our unhappiness." Karma does not forgive; neither does gravity. Mercy is better than forgiveness.
2. Is it hard to reconcile generosity of spirit with a need to challenge one’s equals?
In theory, no. A challenge, freely given and fully refusable, is a gift. In practice, yes - I never know how far or how hard to push.
3. Is teaching a spiritual act? How?
Yes. For me, part of my duty in the world is to nurture understanding and reason in others. That nurturance, that connection to intellectual (and, hopefully, personal) growth in them, is part of what I think of as my priestess-call. It's my service to, my worship of, all the gods and goddesses of learning and wisdom - Thoth, Sarasvati, Athena, Nidaba, Raven . . . (Don't tell the kids that, though!)
4. Leather or nutella?
Leather. I'm not that into chocolate.
5. Snuggles better with talking or sleeping?
Talking. I'm all about the long, meandering, deep conversations until 3 am, wrapped in someone else's arms and entangling them in my legs. (If I can only get one, I'll take the conversation over the snuggling, even. Verbal intimacy is better than no intimacy at all.) I have trouble sleeping while snuggled - it's too . . . arousing is not quite the word I want . . . aware-making for sleep.
And the rules, one more time:
1. Leave a comment requesting an interview.
2. I'll respond by asking you five questions. I get to pick the questions.
3. Update your corner of the net with the answers to the questions and leave notification in the comments to this entry.
4. Include this explanation and an offer to interview someone else in the same post.
5. When others comment asking to be interviewed, ask them five questions. And thus the cycle continues.
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Date: 2005-04-07 03:11 am (UTC)screaming...
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Re: screaming...
Date: 2005-04-09 09:11 pm (UTC)2) How did growing up in Trinidad change your outlook on world events, compared to someone who grew up in a cosmopolitan part of the continental US?
3) Out of the four flavors [caramel, chocolate, coffee, vanilla], which ones strike you as innocent, and which ones as worldly or sophisticated? Why?
4) What are the practical challenges in having a relationship with someone who is significantly taller than you are? What are the benefits?
5) What aspects of LARPing, particularly Call of Cthulhu LARPing, do you particularly enjoy? Which parts, if any, do you think get in the way of the story?
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Date: 2005-04-09 09:06 pm (UTC)2) Name the three best things about growing up in your family, and explain why they were good things for you.
3) Do you think your personality would have been significantly different if you had a younger brother? If you had an older sib of either gender? Why or why not?
4) If the trees spoke to you directly, what would they say?
5) You are on the verge of finally completing your beneficent plot to Take Over the World, when on the horizon your arch-nemesis appears, about to do the one thing that will bring the plan crashing down around your ears. Who is it, and what are they about to do?
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Date: 2005-04-09 02:38 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2005-04-09 09:17 pm (UTC)2) Do you game in systems/settings other than Amber and its variants, and if so, which other ones do you particularly enjoy? If not, what about them do you not like - or what's so special about Amber?
3) Do you feel as though you have a grand purpose in life? If you do, what is it?
4) Do you mind being vaguely flirted with over LJ by people that you've never met in RL, and probably never will?
5) List three traits that you find genuinely attractive in other people that you also share.