A Smooching Survey
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azuzil's, but I think they deserve to become a general meme:
1) Yup, although I admit it's highly partner-dependent.
2) My specialties are the spontaneous smooch and the long, slow lip-curler without tongue. But I like most types. I'm not a big fan of the deep-throat sort of French kissing, but that's the only sort I can think of that I'm really not into.
3) Depends on the partner and the situation. In general, I get restless if the hands don't get involved after two or three minutes.
4) I'm up for a peck with just about anyone (assuming that they're overage, of course). For more serious kissing, it has to be someone I know fairly well, at least a couple of good conversations' worth of knowing. As for where, I'm fond of the neck, behind the ears, wrists, hands, and those diagonal stretches of skin between the waist and the hip.
5) I'm generally for it, as long as the smoochers aren't distracting other people from important tasks (say, my classwork) or obstructing traffic (like, say, my hallway).
6) Depends on who's involved, where's public, and how serious making out we're talking about. Frenching and fully-clothed necking on a park bench is pretty much expected behavior, IMHO. Giving someone a blowjob on the bus is not OK (distracts the driver, if nothing else). As for the party - depends on what type of party. If we're all poly, Pagan, and body-positive, sure, have at, might join you if you're up for it! If it's making someone else uncomfortable, then maybe you should find a closet or something. (Unless the host specifically said it was encouraged; then it's the issue of the person squicking out.)
7) Yes, although not terribly so.
8) Assuming this means "established romantic relationship" - nope. Even if I weren't poly, I'd still be into the occasional extramarital smooch. I don't, however, kiss people I don't know.
9) Good lip muscular tone, enthusiasm, and being able to read their partner's responses.
10) Sure, assuming that they didn't have any sort of agreement of exclusivity with the first kissee.
11) If I'm unpartnered, I do feel a little jealous. And I'll admit, if a couple/triad/puppy pile is making out in a way that's explicitly D/s (not S&M, but strict power-role stuff) with a guy in the Dom position, I can get a little squinked, but that's my issue.
azuzil's, but I think they deserve to become a general meme:1) Do you like kissing?
2) What kind of kissing?
3) How much time should be spent just kissing?
4) Who do you like to kiss? (sex, body, scene)
5) PDA, is it ok to kiss in public?
6) Is it ok to make out in public? What about at a party? Why or Why not?
7) Is kissing intimate?
8) Is kissing exclusive to a relationship?
9) What makes someone a good kisser?
10) If you were watching someone you find attractive kiss someone else would you feel ok kissing them afterward?
11) Are you uncomfortable when people make out around you?
1) Yup, although I admit it's highly partner-dependent.
2) My specialties are the spontaneous smooch and the long, slow lip-curler without tongue. But I like most types. I'm not a big fan of the deep-throat sort of French kissing, but that's the only sort I can think of that I'm really not into.
3) Depends on the partner and the situation. In general, I get restless if the hands don't get involved after two or three minutes.
4) I'm up for a peck with just about anyone (assuming that they're overage, of course). For more serious kissing, it has to be someone I know fairly well, at least a couple of good conversations' worth of knowing. As for where, I'm fond of the neck, behind the ears, wrists, hands, and those diagonal stretches of skin between the waist and the hip.
5) I'm generally for it, as long as the smoochers aren't distracting other people from important tasks (say, my classwork) or obstructing traffic (like, say, my hallway).
6) Depends on who's involved, where's public, and how serious making out we're talking about. Frenching and fully-clothed necking on a park bench is pretty much expected behavior, IMHO. Giving someone a blowjob on the bus is not OK (distracts the driver, if nothing else). As for the party - depends on what type of party. If we're all poly, Pagan, and body-positive, sure, have at, might join you if you're up for it! If it's making someone else uncomfortable, then maybe you should find a closet or something. (Unless the host specifically said it was encouraged; then it's the issue of the person squicking out.)
7) Yes, although not terribly so.
8) Assuming this means "established romantic relationship" - nope. Even if I weren't poly, I'd still be into the occasional extramarital smooch. I don't, however, kiss people I don't know.
9) Good lip muscular tone, enthusiasm, and being able to read their partner's responses.
10) Sure, assuming that they didn't have any sort of agreement of exclusivity with the first kissee.
11) If I'm unpartnered, I do feel a little jealous. And I'll admit, if a couple/triad/puppy pile is making out in a way that's explicitly D/s (not S&M, but strict power-role stuff) with a guy in the Dom position, I can get a little squinked, but that's my issue.
